I have had the same problem with 60 mph and up vibrations. This was on my 500SEL Mercedes. I went thru every thing I could think of. New tires, wheels (used), Road force balance, alignments, drive shaft rebuilds and balance, etc and nothing helped. I lived with this for many years. 8 years ago, we retired and closed our shop. I kept my
wheel balance machine and other equipment I thought I may need. Actually got closed at the end of Feb 2012. Some wear around the middle of 2012 I pulled my Mercedes in the garage and made up my mind that I was going to find this problem.
I checked for bent wheels, out of round tires, bent hubs front and rear. Found a bent
wheel, a front hub bent. Replaced both, knowing I had found the problem. Well, I did't find the problem completely. Still had the vibration, but not as bad.
Next was to go to the balancer. I found a good flat place to set it up. Read the book and set it up and calibrated it as good as I could. Checked and rechecked it. Then I read about the round off feature of the balancer which would round off to the nearest 1/4 ounce. I found out that could be turned off. I also was able to change to the metric system and get readings in grams. Found some accurate scales that would go down to 1 gram. That is almost nothing. I balanced all 4 tires (almost new Mich tires) down to 1 to 2 grams.
I used
rim type balance weights and cut, filed, sanded, or what ever I could do to be as close as I could get to what the balancer said. That was 8 years ago and to this day the old (35 years old) Mercedes will glide down the road (good road) at any speed from 0 to over 100+ mph as smooth as glass.
The point of all of this is that you need to find someone that will take their time and check and balance the tires as close as possible. Not just put it on a balancer and say every thing is good. Some cars are just more sensitive than others.
I have not seen another car this critical, but I am sure there are others.