Update: I've been driving around with the ravenol oil only for a while now. Same results as my original problem with 6th gear. Of note, with this change of oil (and clean up of the the solenoids with mass air flow cleaner) I was having a rougher gear change with 2nd to 3rd gear. It was definitely revving up higher than previously.
Obviously I like to test things, so I took
@Husam advice and add hot shot. haha. I didn't do the full 32 ounces only 16 ish as per the directions on the bottle. 6th gear slippage is the same. But the rough 2nd to 3rd gear is gone. Very smooth from 1-5. Haha. Maybe some other folks may consider adding that Hot Shot to their transmission oil change if having 2-3rd gear problems.
PS...I already ordered the solenoids from Korea. Going to plan on changing 4&OD, 35R, and 6. I ordered the update part from most recent TSB. Crossing fingers.