Hi, my2wins
not sure at what point you are now!
I am in a better place. At least not as much full blown remorse The good dose of reality here helped. Its exactly what I hoping might happen. Facts and reality.
At least I'm realizing a Tesla would not have been my panacea. Sounds like lots of downside there too. And I won't have to forego one of the kids Stanford education just for new wheels. The S is more expensive than I realized. (Ironically, I don't find it attractive at all, just liked the idea of commute lane without sacrificing performance. Had a Civic Hybrid, purchased just for the carpool lane rights, and I will never buy another weak motored car again as long as I live. Its one of the main reasons I went for the G).
For me its not wanting the status. Its wanting high quality, performance and the thrill of being delighted.
With my G, the potential for delight was so great for this car, but I have a specific feature malfunction to deal with around a faulty mic or VC (or both) which unfortunately for me was one of my top care abouts given my use case. And coupled with months of dealing with an inept service ecosystem, created a perfect storm that led me to the front step of regret's dark door way.
By the time I resolve the unfortunate issues (if I ever do) I will have accrued so much frustration that my feelings towards the car and of Hyundai will be neutral at best.
If someone could wave a wand and make the VC and Bluelink work as expected (instantly), I'd probably be able to climb my way back up into a second honeymoon and fall in love all over.
But based on the experiences I've had with drones at the Hyundai corporate web site telling me to contact them, but without follow up when I do, and same with Blue Link escalations people, all just punching a clock and not managing to customer sat. And same with the dealer, although the service people were sympathetic and willing to help but seem not to be able-- I just realistically don't believe its going to get resolved to a passable level of resolution. I haven't seen anything that leads me to believe Hyundai as a whole is willing to do whatever it takes.
The CEO needs a wake up call. If I were him (or her) I'd create a "Nordstrom quality" service culture and drive my business units to emulate whatever luxury car us the Nordstrom equivalent. (Lexus?)
Anywhoo, rant over.
I'm slowly getting over my moment of the realization that I married the wrong car.
Will keep trying to fix the stuff and will try to adjust my expectations.
The car is still beautiful. I still am amazed at the performance of the mechanics. And I still think the bells and whistles are mostly good and even a little very good.
Thanks all for weighing in. If nothing else I know now to test test and test some more before taking delivery of a new car.