OK, I took on the project over the weekend.
A few notes:
1. I was able to do this WITHOUT removing the front bumper. You need smaller hands, but i was able to unscrew the bottom cover off the headlight and between that and the rear cover, I was able to reach in there and disconnect the DRL harness, allowing me enough slack to add the extra pin outside. I used a wire harness from a RC car hobby shop, the wire fit right into the harness and clicked into place once you open the harness cover up. I then drilled the hole for the wire in the round access panel, leaving enough slack inside to be able to rotate the panel as needed to install/remove.
2. Do yourself a favor and order a 50-pack of the push-pin plastic
plugs from eBay before you start.
http://www.ebay.com/itm/361225336403 You *WILL* break at least 50% of the existing ones on the front black radiator shroud, which you need to remove to have decent access to the lights. No fancy tool can help you here, I tried. They're just very brittle.
3. I used a fuse panel mounted add-a-fuse so I wouldn't have to splice any cables in the cabin.
4. If you do buy those time delay relays I mentioned a few posts up, PROGRAM THEM WITH A 9V BATTERY AND TEST LED LIGHT BEFORE YOU PUT THEM IN THE CAR. There is no way to program them in the car. You'll thank me later. Watch the videos from the supplier.
5. I took the opportunity to replace the front amber bulbs with LEDs. I used these
http://www.ebay.com/itm/232209344860 and they are brighter than stock and light up the entire reflector nicely. Note that the passenger side bulb socket is wired backwards so an LED bulb won't work without rewiring; I swapped out the pins on the harness while I was in there anyhow. No fast-blink since you're using the relays instead of flashers.
Having said all of the above, I had considerable issues programming the relays and getting everything to work; so I ended up giving up on the time delay relays and just wiring it like danemania1. Of the two time delays I received, one was faulty, wouldn't turn on at all. The other worked fine on the test bench, but didn't seem to like the load, or who knows what, because it wouldn't work in the car and made the blinker blink fast. Not sure if that's because the second relay wouldn't work, but I didn't see the full DRLs until I removed both time delay relays. The vendor is sending a replacement for the faulty unit, i might try adding a 50ohm resistor on those to see if that cures the issues with the delay timers.