Back in the 70s when fwd became really popular, everything was rwd and in the winter, traction suffered due to poor tires and no traction control technology. FWD was a good (and inexpensive) alternative as it put more weight over the front wheels for better traction, and it "pulls" the car so it can help keep it in line, while rwd "pushes" the car, and the back can push around the front, or cause the car to spin. Thank God things have progressed, but like 3,000 mile oil change intervals, some people continue to believe in the way things used to be.
The magic of rwd is how it feels to drive, how it helps a car rotate around corners, how it best makes optimal use of all four tires - the front two handle turning traction, the rear two handle acceleration traction. It also typically has better weight distribution across the car and works best as weight shifts around the car. With fwd, most of the weight is concentrated in the front of the car, which helps in the snow, but for the rest of the time you end up with a nose-heavy car that doesn't turn or accelerate well. When you accelerate hard, the weight transfers rearward, so there's no weight over the drive wheels, so they are less effective. This also contributes to the aforementioned torque steer, since the wheels are light and grab the pavement unevenly, a fwd car's steering
wheel will pull back and forth on hard accel, so you always have to fight the car as you drive it. As well, since the front tires have to both accelerate and turn the car, there's less overall traction for driving.
The best thing you can do regardless of drive wheels is get winter tires - proper traction and grip is what's needed more than anything. Tires are much more advanced then they used to be, which is why you see rwd cars on snow tires out in the snow while awd SUVs with all seasons are in ditches. Add the advanced traction and stability controls on modern cars, and you really don't have to worry about the car spinning due to power, just poor traction.
I don't know why your friend is so anti-rwd, maybe he's never tried it, maybe he's had a bad experience with it, I don't know. I do know I'd rather buy $1,600 worth of winter tires every 3-4 years for a great rwd car than a $34,000 fwd car and be stuck driving it all year long.