Several updates on the R-Spec impressions.
First - took a long drive this weekend on 33 psi (yes, the tires were overinflated 5 - 7 psi despite two requests to the dealer to check - piece of advice, watch them check and don't wait and ask just before stepping into the booth to sign the papers). Was the difference in psi noticeable - I'm not sure. I may have convinced myself that it was a bit softer, but I don't think it's a night/day difference. I still think the ride is quite nice - a balance between a connection with the road so that you're aware of what's going on when you're driving and a comfortable ride. BUT - the passenger owns an '08 Acura TL (maybe not top of the line but still a "luxury car"). She was over the moon about nearly every aspect of the car - and in particular how much "smoother it rides." Obviously not a scientific poll, but not a bad indicator.
Second - I also gave the car it's first wash/wax. Disclaimer, I'm detail oriented and VERY observant when it comes to these things. If you're not one that cares about minor details, please skip. I have detailed a LOT of cars in my day - believe it or not I actually enjoy it. I have quite a process, a wide selection of various equipment, and spend the better part of an eight hour day to do "the works." Some things I noticed: the paint on this car is amazing. It holds up well, doesn't swirl and looks mirror smooth. Typically, in corners or where two metal pieces join you can see a buildup of paint or paint that is thinner/thicker in hard to reach areas or areas where it may pool. This car was fantastic in that regard. Where it let me down was the trim. There are metal trim accents around the windows on the doors - it looks like a soft finished aluminum although I'm not quite sure. Across the entire run of it, there were little brownish red spots that couldn't be polished, rubbed, scratched or peeled off. It doesn't look like rust (which makes sense as I believe it's aluminum) but it's rust-like. Noted, these are TINY and I would bet few other owners would even notice, but it bothers me. Another issue, and this one is far bigger to me, the color applied to the finish on the wheels is not consistent. In the lugnut wells, the spray didn't always penetrate and where it should have been the gunmetal gray, you can see the unpainted metal. I would suggest checking your R-Spec's wheels before leaving the dealer. I'm going to point it out to my dealer when I go to have the oil changed. And lastly, I hate how water pools on the flat part of the bumper around where it meets the trunk. That's going to leave hard water, pollen stains like crazy. All they needed to do was give it a tiny angle to roll off, but instead it's flat and acts as a ledge for water streaming down from the trunk to collect.
Lastly, still love the car AND the wheels

I'll post an interesting picture I took of the hood after putting on some wax.