I honestly couldnt drive a car an pay for something I dont like
That line speaks volumes.
You COULDN'T drive a car you don't like.
As my father used to say, spare us the drama. If I held a loaded gun to your head and said, "Drive this 8-year-old Prius until you get to be on a first-name basis with your mechanic, or I will blow your brains out," I think you'd find you COULD drive that car.
You just don't WANT to, which is not at all the same thing.
You want to drive a big luxury car, and you think you can afford it, just as long as absolutely nothing goes wrong in your life. The problem is, something ALWAYS goes wrong in life - you lose a job, the roof on the duplex you said you own needs to be replaced, your tenant trashes the place and skips out on the back rent and you have to pay thousands of dollars just to make the place rentable again, or, God forbid, you or your wife or your kid run into some horrible medical expenses (you DO have good health insurance with low deductible, right?).
Want to learn how fast life can bitch-slap you? Talk with anyone who bought all the house they could barely afford ten years ago, when prices were going up up up, and then ran into one of life's unexpected reality-check sessions, like a spouse's job loss. Before they knew it, their lovely 5-bedroom house with the 2-1/2 car garage was in mortgage foreclosure and their credit rating was shot to hell.
If you're looking at a car and figuring, "Yeah, I can make these payments, as long as nothing goes wrong," you're looking at the wrong car.
You titled this thread, "sell me lol." It sounds to me like you've already sold yourself, and you just want everyone here to tell you it's a wise move. Since you're not getting that, and you claimed to be open-minded about this in your OP, I suggest you re-think this, before you find yourself saying, a year or two down the road, "God damn it, another ckufing learning experience..."
