GripperDon
Been here awhile...
Gripper Don, suggest you try the cheap things first - concentrating on rear sway bar. It is very unlikely that any aftermarket outfit will produce a sway bar narrower than the oem 17.5 mm. Consider removing the rear sway bar altogether. You'd need to have the car on jack stands with the wheels removed as most sway bars require a lateral movement for removal and wheels are in the way.
You have the V6 which is far lighter in the front than the V8 with inherently less understeer. Removing the rear bar altogether will increase your understeer, but for normal driving you will be o.k. There are plenty of vehicles out there that do not have rear sway bars. For instance my base PT Cruiser did not have a rear sway bar, but the Touring Edition does. The nice thing about rear sway bar removal is that it is easily restored. While it is out examine the bushings to determine if you have the "oval bushings."
I had read your suggestion when to posted about it some days ago and I do plan to test it just as soon as I can. It's going to be 75F again today and still have some pressing lawn sprinkler problems that are eating me up. But I plan on getting the car up on a lift and doing some more test things just as soon as I can. I keep you advised, My list of actions is mostly a result of some things I have done and other I am comtemplating. I am getting to be a bouncyness expert so I thoughts for Mike come from experience plus thinking and yours should have been added to the list. Sorry I forgot.